Tuesday, May 08, 2007

Endure the Silence?

At work recently, we were put into different rooms. I was put in with a colleague, who I'll imaginatively refer to as Colleague X. Now, Colleague X is man of few words, or more specifically, a man of no words. Yes, entire days pass where the only conversation is a single, abbreviated "see you later". Other than that it's complete silence all day. Now, up until now my attitude is that if Colleague X isn't going to make any conversation then I'm not going to bother either. As a result of this I'm now as quiet as Colleague X. I've been called quiet in the past and often am, but Colleague X makes me look like Graham Norton/Lily Savage/Dame Edna rolled into one (in conversation terms, not dress sense).
The dilemma is this: either I make more of an effort to talk to Colleague X and maybe he'll come out of his shell, or I continue as I am and take the attitude "well if he's not making any effort then he can fuck right off!"
The latter, I think. Dilemma resolved.

4 Comments:

At 6:18 AM, Blogger FWA Melbourne Writers Group meets the 3rd Wednesday of each month at 7PM said...

You are an intriguing writer. Beneath your grumbling and complaining, I detect a delightful sense of humour.

It's too bad your flat is closing in on you and your colleague is a stalwart stone. I wonder: can you listen to music at work? I have to wonder if maybe the mysterious X likes to sing along with the radio.

Best of luck to you!

 
At 6:25 AM, Blogger Duncan said...

8 hours of music a day is what keeps me sane. God bless the eccentric ramblings of Kate Bush, Brian Ferry et al.

 
At 6:43 AM, Blogger Duncan said...

Maybe I'm being a bit harsh on Colleague X. I know it's not personal (he's like that with everyone); seems like a nice enough guy. Still, the occasional "hello" in the morning or "how was your weekend?" wouldn't go amiss.

 
At 6:46 AM, Blogger Duncan said...

In addition, 37.5 hours a week of silence is probably quite unhealthy psychologically. That's how serial killers are made.

 

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